A couple of
weeks ago my friend Robin came over and was helping me with a daunting and
overwhelming task. We had already been
going at it for hours when I turned and noticed my beautiful antique French art
deco champagne glasses. Suddenly I
announced, “We need champagne” and I headed to the store for a bottle. When I
returned with a taco shop lunch and a very nice bottle of champagne, I filled
my very favorite champagne glasses with the bubbly. I have owned these glasses for about twenty
years and first used them to toast at my wedding. I think I have only used them maybe once or
twice since then. They are my most
cherished possession and I have kept them safe in a case for years; afraid of
taking them out and using them for fear of breaking one.
Now, this morning, while in the pantry
getting coffee to make a pot, I noticed that I still had a bit of Kona coffee
my friend (Robin once again) brought back from Hawaii last year. Kona coffee brought over from Hawaii is a
delightful pleasure for me and I tried to make it last as long as I could. As I looked at the half empty bag, I realized
that I wasn’t really enjoying it because I was only using it for special
occasions. It was so revered that I put
it up on the shelf (pedestal) and rarely used it. I realized that day that I wanted to enjoy
all my favorite things as often as I could, whether it was a special occasion
or not.
How many things do we put on a
pedestal afraid to touch it, spoil it or break it? How many things are brought out only for
special occasions? Are we missing the
pleasures in life because we are afraid that there isn’t enough
to last so it’s best if we use it sparingly? I have to say it was a huge “aha” moment for
me when I realized, that for me, saving something for a special occasion was
based in the low energy of lack. I realized that day that I wanted to enjoy
all my favorite things as often as I could, whether it was a special occasion
or not. In order to make a change, I had
to change my way of thinking. Abundance is the opposite of lack
and is a powerful energy that is strong and flows freely if allowed to. I now allow the things I was holding on to for special occasions
to be held in the energy of abundance.
There is an infinite (abundant) amount of joy and pleasure to be found, so if I use up my
favorite coffee, there will always be more coffee. If I break a favorite glass, an equally
precious glass will enter my life. There
is always enough to go around.
Nothing can be enjoyed if we do not use
it (or look at it). The pleasures in
life are meant to be enjoyed daily, not only at special times, and there is always enough pleasure to last a lifetime. So, replace lack with abundance and begin
living a meaningful life now.
Which of
your favorite things would you like to incorporate into your daily life? Please comment here and share with us.
In love and
light,
Christine
So very true, Christine! I think that's why I enjoy the holidays so much because I pull out special pieces of crystal and china that were wedding gifts (now 24+ years old). Truly these packed away treasures warm the heart.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing! xo.
Mitchell, I hope you are considering taking out those treasures more often!
DeleteI guess I never really thought of it that way. I'm just so used to not being able to use special things/pieces because of being worried that the kids would break them {as has happened SO many times}. Now that the kids are older, I will definitely enjoy things more!
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